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Tantric Relationship Books and Videos

If the Buddha Dated: A Handbook for Finding Love on a Spiritual Path, by Charlotte Kasl, Ph.D.
The Way of the Superior Man, 
Now available in ebook format from Blue Truth
by David Deida.
"This book is a guide for a specific kind of newly evolving man. This man is unabashedly masculine--he is purposeful, confident, and directed, living his chosen way of life with deep integrity and humor--and he is sensitive, spontaneous, and spiritually alive, with a heart-commitment to discovering and living his deepest truth."
Intimate Communion, by David Deida
Conscious Dating: Finding the Love of Your Life & the Life That You Love by David Steele
Determine what you need in a relationship. Discover how to choose a partner who is truly alighned with who you are and what you want. Learn what really makes relationships fail and how to prevent it from happening again. Learn how to write a personal ad to attract your perfect life partner. Apply strategies that actually work in our complex world of dating.
Tantra: The Art of Conscious Loving by Charles and Caroline Muir
Especially good for couples, clearly written and easy to read.  An excellent way to start learning Tantra, and keep the intimacy and nurturing aspects of your relationship alive.
The Marriage of Sex And Spirit: Relationships at the Heart of Conscious Evolution
In The Marriage of Sex and Spirit, thirty-five of the most provocative and fresh voices of our generation give us the keys to transforming relationships from a source of grief and bondage to a celebration of self and other. Drawing together the most powerful wisdom of spiritual teachers, psychiatrists, anthropologists, educators, therapists, coaches, writers, artists, this groundbreaking anthology presents the visions and ideas that form the gateway to transforming both spirituality and sexuality. This powerful collection of practical techniques and breakthrough insights offers the potential to utterly transform your experience of relationships into a source of joy, inspiration and fuel for your spiritual and emotional journey.
How to Make Anyone Fall in Love With You ,
by Leil Lowndes
Presents a surefire guide for anyone seeking romantic bliss. How to Make Anyone Fall in Love with You offers 85 techniques based on scientific studies regarding the nature of love, finding potential love partners, making an unforgettable first impression, dodging "love bloopers" and establishing sexual rapport.
The Fine Art of Erotic Talk: How to Entice, Excite and Enchant Your Lover with Words, by Bonnie Gabriel
"Based on Gabriel's popular workshops, this frankly provocative and warmly encouraging book is designed for both singles and couples: to help singles navigate the shoals of attraction, budding intimacy, and safe sex; and to inspire couples to charge longtime romances with new creative expressions of love and ardor through explicit examples, sample fantasy scripts, "naughty" games, and techniques for nurturing and sexual healing.  And for those who feel too shy or fearful to express passions and yearnings, Gabriel offers guidance, support, and inspiration to help them give full voice to their desires."
The Complete Idiot's Guide to a Healthy Relationship,

by Dr. Judy Kuriansky

Also listen to her radio show, Love Phones. Love Phones offers practical advice on all matters relating to relationships, sex and the social pressures of being a young person in America today.

Soul Mates - Honoring the Mysteries of Love and Relationship by Thomas Moore
Love Sex and Magick: Exploring the Spiritual Union Between Male and Female
by Sirona Knight
A concise guide for those couples ready to explore ways to reach new levels of intimacy and awareness in their relationships. Sirona provides clearly described exercises for partners to try at home, complete with appendixes of information and recipes you can use right away. Take a cue from the author to discover how to evolve your relationship from sensuous to sensitive to spiritual. Once you realize how the energy of your personal space sets the stage for your intimate relationships, you move on to merging your energies through the chakras. If you are ready to form a committed relationship, there is an example of a ritual presented from her Druid tradition. You really do discover how the power of two people joined together can become much more in all aspects of life. If this sounds complicated, it's not. The beginnings of deepening your relationship can be as simple as a deep breathing or visualization exercise. Sirona shows how the teachings of Hindus, Taoists and the Druids all share common elements and perspectives that serve to support enhanced intimacy through heightened energy awareness and activation.
Polyamory: The New Love Without Limits : Secrets of Sustainable Intimate Relationships
by Dr. Deborah Anapol
Open Marriage : A New Life Style for Couples
by Nena and George O'Neill
The Heart's Wisdom: A Practical Guide to Growing Through Love
by Joyce and Barry Vissell
"For many couples, the romantic bliss of a relationship's early stages is followed by a bumpy road. This scenario can be avoided with a different approach: living from the heart. Joyce and Barry Vissell have spent 35 years of marriage learning from their relationship. They show in this guide how to eliminate fear, how to heal blocked sexuality, how to say no to the one you love, and how every couple can learn from jealousy."
Simple Loving: A Path to Deeper, More Sustainable Relationships
by Janet Luhrs
Janet Luhrs, one of the founders of the simplicity movement and best-selling author of the "Simple Living Guide," is back with "Simple Loving," a tool for mindfully deepening your relationship with yourself, your partner, and your family.
Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus: A Practical Guide for Improving Communication and Getting What You Want in Your Relationships,
by John Gray 
One of the basic sources of insight into why men and women behave as we do... how to communicate, how to keep our relationships close, how we approach intimacy differently...and simple changes we can make for much happier relationships.
Body Language Secrets: A Guide During Courtship & Dating
by R. Don Steele
How to Succeed With Women
by Ron Louis, David Copeland