For Him:
"The primary quality that makes a man attractive to women is the freedom of his attention. When his attention is not tightly bound to this or that, then the force of his consciousness is free to transmit as the strength of his presence."
— From "Finding God Through Sex," a book by David Deida
For Her:
"Your yearning attracts and inspires love. If you allow your deepest yearning to show through your entire body, you will attract and inspire a deep man."
— From "Dear Lover," a book by David Deida
For Him:
"You always attract what you are giving out. So, if you are waiting to be inspired before you will give your gift, then everyone is waiting. Because the woman who would inspire you is waiting to feel a man who is giving his gifts so they can give their inspiration to him. If you are holding back, that is not going to incite their desire to evoke your inspiration."
— From "The Love That Washes Through Patterns," an audiotape by David Deida
You'll find great books on improving your communication and relationships here.
If you are in the San Francisco Bay Area, I have many fun things to do listed on my San Francisco page.
Some excellent places for meeting people to date:
| OneTaste Urban Retreat Center, 1074 Folsom St., San Francisco, CA 415-503-1100. Workshops based on building connection. Events led by top instructors from all over the country, on topics including sexuality, communication, spiritual growth, relationship, intimacy, fitness. OneTaste is designed and created by women for the enjoyment of everyone. Both singles and couples welcome. |
| Tantra.com Personals to find Tantric partners throughout the USA and the world. Place your own ad and respond to ads for free. |
| Spiritually Sexy the perfect online dating partner for people dedicated to Intimate Communion. Spiritually Sexy is for straight and gay singles who would like to meet others for romance, practices, dating, relationships or marriage. |
| Singles Net |
| Amor — Latin Singles dating site |
| Craig's List has a very active personals section, as well as being a resource for finding events in your area, jobs, and more. I highly recommend it! |
| Yahoo! Personals Very popular, well-designed personals. Once you've made the initial contact, you can chat for free using Yahoo Messenger. |
| Friendster lets you connect with friends of your friends, or search for friends by their interests. |
| Twin Souls Search Engine |
Adult
Friend Finder - largest Adult Personals with over 1 million members! |
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PositiveSingles.com , the best, easiest and largest STD dating site. Living with Herpes, HIV/AIDS, Thrush or other STDs? Here's a whole community of people just like you. |
![]() Meet your One-and-Only Match! or for wilder times, go to Alternative Connections |
| Match.com |
| San Francisco Bay Guardian |
| Kiss.com, the World's Largest Picture Personals Web Site |
| American Singles Non-Profit Dating Service |