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We are a society that is crazy (both meanings) about sex! Here
are some sources of information on safer sex, and on opening different
aspects of your sexuality.
Please also see my pages on
Tantra Products
, as well as my
Relationship Books
pages.
For private sessions, increasing your knowledge and skill as a lover,
please see my pages on
learning Tantra.
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I
still don’t understand how we ever got the idea that suffering
was good.
You are wise to be insistent in questioning that. The original
wisdom surrounding suffering in silence has become so perverted
that now many believe (and several religions actually teach) that
suffering is good, and joy is bad. Therefore, you have decided
that if someone has cancer, but keeps it to himself, he is a saint,
whereas if someone has (to pick a dynamite topic) robust sexuality,
and celebrates it openly, she is a sinner.
Boy, You did pick a dynamite topic. And
You cleverly changed the pronoun, too, from male to female.
Was that to make a point?
It was to show you your prejudices. You don’t like to think
of women having robust sexuality, much less celebrating
it openly.
You would rather see a man dying without a whimper on the battlefield
than a woman making love with a whimper in the street.
Conversations with God,
by Neale Donald Walsch
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Safer sex techniques can save your life, and prevent spreading other
diseases that make your sex life unpleasant. AIDS is far from the
only disease being spread sexually.
There are drug-resistant strains of syphilis and gonorrhea. Herpes
is widespread.
Simple techniques can greatly reduce your risk, while still allowing
you to give and receive exquisite sexual pleasure.
San Francisco
Sex Information, a free information and referral switchboard
415-989-SFSI (7374), or
www.sfsi.org
Includes excellent information on safer sex.
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Safer Sex.org
Society for Human Sexuality's Guides
Guide to Safer Sex
(Lengthy)
Guide to Safer Sex
(Concise)
Center for Disease Control's Guidelines for Prevention of Sexually
Transmitted Disease
http://www.cdc.gov/nchstp/dstd/dstdp.html
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Use your computer's unused processor power to test candidate drug's
molecular shapes against a model of the AIDS virus.
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CharmHealth
has information on nutritional ways of improving your health, including
your sex life.
Best herbs, minerals, vitamins, liquid vitamin, food supplements,
sports nutrition products and beauty care products. We carry
full line of CELLFOOD, Sea Silver, USANA and Vitamin Power.
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Here are some excellent books on different aspects of Sexuality:
Fine Art of Erotic Talk
: How to Entice, Excite and Enchant Your Lover With Words
by Bonnie Gabriel
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How
to Make Anyone Fall in Love With You , by Leil Lowndes
Presents a surefire guide for anyone seeking romantic bliss. How to
Make Anyone Fall in Love with You offers 85 techniques based on scientific
studies regarding the nature of love, finding potential love partners,
making an unforgettable first impression, dodging
"love bloopers" and establishing sexual rapport.
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Tantric Massage
Video and Book Package
by Kenneth Ray Stubbs
Exquisitely presented massage and Tantric massage techniques.
(60 minute video, 111 page book)
The
Essential Tantra
: A Modern Guide to Sacred Sexuality
by Kenneth Ray Stubbs, published January 2000
For the first time, Kenneth Ray Stubbs brings together the books of
his beloved
"Secret Garden Trilogy" — Tantric Massage, Sensual Ceremony,
and Sacred Orgasms — into one complete volume. In this three-in-one
book, couples will find a broad range of creative ideas.
 Erotic
Massage: The Tantric Touch of Love
by Kenneth Ray Stubbs, 1999 version
This is one of *the* classic guides on erotic massage.
More than one quarter million people have bought Erotic Massage --
and the feedback has been terrific. Look at what reviewers say about
it:
"Superbly illustrated ... The techniques described are simple,
easy to perform ... The book is clearly illustrated and proceeds in
a formal fashion to give the lay-person a truly alive experience of
massage therapy." -- Massage Magazine
"The drawings are explicit yet artful; the text takes a tender,
playful, yet respectful tone, and instructions are clear without sounding
clinical." -- Medical Self Care
"The black and white drawings are quite explicit ... If you need
a map, this is the book for you ... If you are in the market for something
to spice up your sexual experience, this book will surely provide
the needed information on how to effectively accomplish this feat." --
New Age Retailer
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Illustrated Perfumed Garden - A Sensuous Paradise Where Erotic Love
Grows and Blooms
Sensual, sexual and erotic knowledge presented with a modern perspective
and sumptuous photography.
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Erotic
Partner Massage
by Christine Unseld-Baumanns. Learn how couples can enjoy a fabulous
massage, through over 250 photos, showing you exactly where to touch
and what to do.
Covers full-body massage (with just a few subtle hints about
going from erotic to sexual). Mostly Swedish style, with a little
accupressure, and presented to be done on a bed or mat.
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New Sensual Massage - Learn to Give Pleasure With Your Hands
by Gordon Inkeles. Includes photos, anatomical drawings, and clear
descriptions of massage strokes everyone loves!
Detailed instructions (6 pages on the back of the legs, for example).
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Earth
Honoring: The New Male Sexuality, by Robert Lawlor
"Our sense of self, society, and spirituality are inseparably linked
to our sexuality. This book explores the particular role of male sexuality
in the formation of these three vital areas of life. In it I [Lawlor]
attempt to show how an imbalance in male sexuality is at the core of
many contemporary problems... There is always a shifting, balancing
and rebalancing of opposites through the natural cycles of time. I explore
in this book these alternating cycles in the evolution of the dominant
and submissive patterns of male and female sexuality throughout long
periods of our history, as well as within our own lives. We shall be
dealing with large ideas concerning human sexuality and envisioning
some of the deep original causes, rather than the symptoms, of many
modern-day crises."
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Spiral
Dance: A Rebirth of the Ancient Religion of the Great Goddess, revised and updated 10th anniversary edition,
by Starhawk
"One of the key volumes on contemporary American Goddess worship...
A primary work for those interested in exploring the craft." -
New Directions for Women.
"Lucid, appealing... a broad philosophy of harmony with nature,
of human concord, sexual liberation, creativity, and healthy pleasure,
as expressed and celebrated in a free-wheeling worship of the universe." -
Kirkus Review
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Ordinary
Women, Extraordinary Sex : Every Woman's Guide to Pleasure and Beyond
Dr. Sandra Scantling, et al
Beautifully written, with many stories of how women developed their
sexuality to regularly have orgasms where "the earth moved"!
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The
Heart's Wisdom
: A Practical Guide to Growing Through Love
by Joyce and Barry Vissell, May 1999
"For many couples, the romantic bliss of a relationship's early
stages is followed by a bumpy road. This scenario can be avoided with
a different approach: living from the heart. Joyce and Barry Vissell
have spent 35 years of marriage learning from their relationship. They
show in this guide how to eliminate fear, how to heal blocked sexuality,
how to say no to the one you love, and how every couple can learn from
jealousy."
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Touching
Fire : Erotic Writings by Women
", Edited by Louise Thornton, Jan Sturtevant and Amber Coverdale
Sumrall. "Touching Fire is a collection of verse and story from
authors as diverse as Deena Metzger, Margaret Atwood, Tess Gallagher,
Zora Neale Hurston, and more... The book would still be banned in plenty
of places; yet in its joy and celebration, it belongs in a picnic hamper
when heading out for the trees with the one you love."
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Ethical Slut
: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities
by Dossie Easton, Catherine A. Liszt
Therapist Dossie Easton and sex educator/author Catherine A. Liszt provide
a road map for exploring the sometimes difficult, often rewarding territory
of non-traditional relationships. Warm, informative details about how
to get your needs met, manage your jealousy, make agreements that work
for all concerned, talk to your friends and relatives, and build a life
full of all the sex and love you want.
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Threesome
: How to Fulfill Your Favorite Fantasy
by Lori Gammon, Bill Strong
For those who fantasize about the erotic delights of a menage a trois
..., Lori Gammon welcomes you into her uninhibited world. With five
years of research and her own intimate adventures as a guide, Lori explains
bisexual women and what they want. Then she lays out a carefully-crafted
plan that allows men and women, married or single, to explore sensual
pleasures most cannot imagine. She teaches women how to arrange and
enjoy any combination of attractive men and willing women. Girlfriends
discover how to seduce each other without fear of embarrassment or rejection.
Men are taught to delicately and sensitively fan their lover's secret
passions and lead their wives onto new frontiers.
Lori explains why shy women can't openly admit they want a threesome;
she then reveals magic techniques that open a floodgate of eager feminine
desire.
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Generation
Sex : America's Hottest Sex Therapist Answers the Hottest Questions
About Sex and
Complete Idiot's Guide to a Healthy Relationship, by Dr. Judy Kuriansky
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Prostate Cancer Protection Program: The Foods, Supplements, and Drugs
that Could Save Your Life
by Dr. Bob Arnot
More people are diagnosed with prostate cancer each year than any other
cancer. NBC's Dr. Bob Arnot created the nutrition-based "Prostate
Cancer Protection Plan" for all men--those who've been diagnosed
with cancer, and those with normal or rising PSA test results--with
empowering facts for staying healthy.
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