Dating

"The primary quality that makes a man attractive to women is the freedom of his attention. When his attention is not tightly bound to this or that, then the force of his consciousness is free to transmit as the strength of his presence."

— From "Finding God Through Sex," a book by David Deida

For Her:

"Your yearning attracts and inspires love. If you allow your deepest yearning to show through your entire body, you will attract and inspire a deep man."

— From "Dear Lover," a book by David Deida

For Him:

"You always attract what you are giving out. So, if you are waiting to be inspired before you will give your gift, then everyone is waiting. Because the woman who would inspire you is waiting to feel a man who is giving his gifts so they can give their inspiration to him. If you are holding back, that is not going to incite their desire to evoke your inspiration."

— From "The Love That Washes Through Patterns," an audiotape by David Deida